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about the writer

Asta Perez is a 30-something madness with stardust around her eyes and a pen name.

Her writing strives to give people permission to take up space in the world as their multifaceted, complex, human selves.

Her soul is happiest when she is reading, or being around people who lift up her spirits

Latest Posts

  • Self-Care Is A Mindset, Not A To-Do List

    Self-Care Is A Mindset, Not A To-Do List

    Self-care is behavior that follows the mindset of treating yourself with the love and respect you deserve as a human being.

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  • Here’s Your Reminder To Just Keep Going

    Here’s Your Reminder To Just Keep Going

    You’re stronger than you give yourself credit for. Remember the last time you were down? You’ve grown so much since then. You’ve learned so many new coping mechanisms, and so many personalized methods of calming yourself down.

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  • You Don’t Need Perfection To Be Happy

    You Don’t Need Perfection To Be Happy

    Because happiness was never about accomplishment. Happiness was never about achievement. Happiness was never about being perfect.

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  • It’s Time To Stop Underestimating Yourself

    It’s Time To Stop Underestimating Yourself

    Turning your life requires a stubborn version of you, a person who never gives up, a person who’s determined to find joy in life, and a person who finds love and happiness within

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  • A Letter To My Friends For When I Seem Distant

    A Letter To My Friends For When I Seem Distant

    Don’t get mad if I’m feeling distant or if my responses have been curt, I just don’t have the strength to explain it all and I am fighting my own feelings every minute just so I can get through the day.

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  • Let’s Talk About Reproductive Rights

    Let’s Talk About Reproductive Rights

    If I were to get pregnant right this second, I know I would not keep it. I am not ready to be a mom. I am not ready to go through a pregnancy. And this is my choice. No one else’s.

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